Many people are stubborn. I had never thought of myself as stubborn until I learned I was an Enneagram 9. Only then was able to see that I’m easy going, but don’t ever tell me what to do. I will turn around and do the opposite thing so fast I don’t even realize I’m being stubborn.
Being stubborn can cause us to not read our situation correctly. It can cause us to be blind. And the more we are blind, the less we are able to see that whatever method we are using to solve a problem just isn’t working.
Hopefully, we eventually realize that we are acting insane. Well, maybe not that extreme, but you understand what I mean.
But what if you are doing the same thing over and over again because you don’t know what else to do?
It is at such times that seeking help is the solution. Continue reading Asking for Help – An essential tool on your healing journey.